Most of today's parents are so uber-involved as to step in on the child's bullying issues at school (that's a whole different post). However, many parents are missing the number one possible suspect that would harm their child- family and family friends. As a criminologist, it makes me cringe to think how many parents allow this activity to go on because they're clueless. Never trust people to be alone with your kids. ANYONE. Anytime you have to leave your child in another person's care, have a discussion with them about how it went and check them for any physical injury. This is an epidemic in our country.
Beware of your neighbors, friends, and family. It's hard to fathom, but be especially critical of anyone who is always eager to have alone time with your child. While some people genuinely do love children, you have to always be skeptical because the safety of your child is more important. There are no exceptions to this rule. If you have children with special needs (need the citation), there is about a 95% chance that they will be abused or neglected.
Parents, please, open your eyes. Even an adult that may be a lifelong friend cannot be trusted. I know, I know, we all want to believe our families and friends are inherently good and it would never happen to our child. However, there is no other adult- except yourself, that you can COMPLETELY trust that they will care for your child in the way that you want them to be cared for. Pay attention. Be paranoid.
